The GoldStaOldSta 80+  The Age of Illumination Awaits

Today is the day.

You turn 80, decades and decades longer than you ever thought you would live in this endlessly fascinating world of ours.

So, what do you do to celebrate?

There is the thought of the usual happy media-compelling consumer enticements.

You know: maybe some golden bling trinkets, a golden trip, a large golden celebration, and in my case, some beautiful golden shoes - not too expensive - those fake jewels tend to fall off!  Trendy footwear has been an obsession since childhood where there was one pair of flip-flops, the hated school uniform shoes, and our preference, barefoot.

Absolutely nothing wrong with any of those choices.

Juxtaposed with those happy thoughts, there is sadness.

A mourning of what was: mistakes in judgement and regrets for decisions made – too late to be reversed.

Losing precious friends and family who have gone before, while with others who are still physically here, seeing their awareness of their charismatic personages slowly slipping away into never-neverland.

I tell you it is deeply distressing in seeing those bright lights diminish.

The influences that those dear people brought into our lives is a reminder of our interconnectiveness, sharpening our remembrance of those many years before.

So, then, you reflect on you.

How lucky am I to end up where I am today.

Goldsta-Oldsta80 time can be so invigorating.

Our eight decades of learned living skills have been honed to the highest level.

We embrace the amazing clarity in realistic thought, in acute awareness of the value of our people and environment surrounding us.

It releases all the self-doubt of oneself and the implicit decades-long inner pressure to compare ourselves to others; how do we measure up; do they like me; am I wearing the right attire; do I fit in; do I have enough money, the right house, the right car, and on and on trying to emulate the IN crowd.

We know who we are.

We no longer need affirmation.

Actually, we never needed it, but who among us didn’t wade through multiple periods of self-doubt, envy, and feelings of failure by comparing ourselves to others - deemed better, more successful in our minds.

Now that we have reached the age of illumination, we know exactly what success means to us.

We have become startlingly perceptive of being in the now; free of all personal insecurities because we realize that our inner success was always there  - just waiting to be captured in a sparkling golden aura of dream realization.

We have become astutely aware of how very vulnerable personally others may be, still, regardless of the age group.

Now, we can freely use our amazing capacity to affirm others.

Our close personal relationships become more intense. We treasure and love very deeply those still with us, particularly our dear spouses, partners, family, and friends.

We embrace their trueness, their value and their incredible love, loyalty, and commitment to us.

We now realize our own true value, that inner peace with ourselves.

In the Golden Age of Illumination, the potential of the future still awaits for any of us to move forward to leave a lasting, other-than-monetary, legacy.

Still time to reach out, nurture, mentor and affirm others.

Still time to continue our mission to follow our dreams and support/encourage others to follow theirs.

Still time to spread the joy of still being here.

It costs nothing, but the reward is priceless.

Make life count, every single day.

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By Martha Harris Myron ·

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TIME TO PUT GRATITUDE INTO ACTION
Doing the Most Good, and Above All, Love

The US economy is strong, so the economic pundits say.

Inflation is dropping, but that trickle-down effect is not reflected in ordinary families’ financial situations.

Nor is it of any comfort to any working family that is now struggling to make ends meet.

Food banks and helping hand charities, in soliciting increasing support, are reporting that the demand for basic living needs has increased substantially from the prior year.

More concerning, in the ominous financial choice of paying the rent or buying groceries, more employed workers are seeking assistance just to get by.

Who knows how many are one paycheck away from homelessness?

Noticing cars in large box-store parking lots, often in a remote corner, one can only surmise if the occupants are indeed in such hopeless situations.

The rest of us may not be so affected.

In fact, most of us have never felt the constant fear, neediness, and humiliating exhaustion of finding / begging for food, nor even having access to basic bathroom and laundry facilities.

That is being - financially less than survival level – working poor.

We are incredibly lucky.

We can still buy our creature comforts, although possibly not in the same volume or value as in previous extravaganza years. The point being, we have the choice to buy – or not – because we can afford to.

But, this, too, will pass, you think. Once inflation is normalized, the gravy train will be back. 

Maybe yes, maybe no.

We cannot predict the future.

We can in our own way when we are able to, however, help those who without basic needs as food, lodging and healthcare, have lost hope for the future.

There are so many altruistic organizations, incredibly caring souls among us, who have given their career and retirement years to the care of others.

The Salvation Army is one of them.

Their Commitment, Doing the Most Good and Above All, Love, means meeting human needs without discrimination across the world

This is their complete dedication to humanity.

They have participated in disaster relief efforts for more than 100 years.

They believe in economic justice, providing comfort and support in times of need.

In 2023, in the United States alone, they served 168 million free meals, plus provided financial assistance to 3 million more.

They are ardent campaigners against international human trafficking and slavery.

They believe in God's work by showing their commitment to practice what they preach.

They truly live the life.

There are many other invisible ordinary citizens who help anonymously and willingly. All these wonderful people have prioritized community service above personal success.

Our own teachers, for instance, who generously dip into their own pockets to buy meals (and clothing, etc.) for children with none, always come to mind having known some personally. Teachers receive so little in compensation given their challenges to enhance the creative young minds of our precious children.

Selflessly kind, these are the people who deserve our gratitude this year. They are our true heroes.

Sharing the Abundance of Privilege.

This is the challenge to YOU.

To all those who can afford to help this year, it is now time to do so.

If you have never given before, show compassion and caring for your community (and people) who have had to take a step backward in the quest to 'get ahead' in life.

It can be monetary or in-kind: cook for a neighbor, garden up a yard, help in a food kitchen, buy a tank of gas for a family, pick up a bag of groceries at checkout, volunteer at a hospital, drive elderly to medical appointments, clean up after storms, you know what you can do.

In our United States, such a wealthy modern country, if every person in the workforce of 161.5 million (October 2024) gave $5 (the cost of one bag of chips) to the charity of their choice, that's $807 Million dollars.

Double that to $10 dollars, just the cost of lunch out - translates into 1.6 trillion dollars.

Now that's funding a lot of meals.

This is a one-time donation – what if you double that to twice a year, three times a year?  A tiny, tiny amount that you won’t even miss - multiplied thousands of times has enormous caring power!

Think of the power you have personally - to contribute to the well-being of someone else’s life.

Imagine how the act of giving, instead of getting, can enhance your own self esteem.

You can do this.

We can do this, as a community we always have.

Let's not get too self-satisfied either.

You never know when you might need a helping hand.

         Written in memory of our father, Cecil E Harris - The Bermuda Sewing Machine Man  - who was a great supporter of his church community and the Bermuda Salvation Army.

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